Is Supporting You Optional?

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I have been wanting to share this for a couple of days now. Based on a conversation and sauna prayer time, what came to me was the question, have you allowed supporting you to be optional? I pose that question to you. This is regarding family, friends and unfortunately with social media strangers.  Think about it. Some will have to think  about it. Some will have to think harder than others to get to their truth.  People will always follow your lead when it comes to how to support, encourage and respect you. Those are three things that should never be optional. If you have set that tone, work on changing it TODAY. The individual I was speaking to said, “I wish I could not care

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​like you”.  That broke my heart that my respect for myself is interpreted as “I don’t care”. I said, I care however my happy comes before it all. I just simply can’t allow anyone to treat me poorly. I hold people accountable, treat me how I treat you.  It’s easier said than done. This doesn’t mean every relationship is cut or must remain, this just means figure out where and how to react. Sometimes this simply means, you stop sharing as much. It could mean you remove the individual out of your space. This could mean the reason and season has come and gone. Just know this, life and relationships don’t have to be hard or difficult. If either of those cause you true unhappiness in your day to day, that is not of God.  If you need to seek him on how to move then do so, but DO NOT sit